Another loss
I lost a friend as i trust my bestie alot a friend for whom i had feelings and now i came to know he still loves his ex and i feel so ashamed and depressed
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Lackwittyname · 51-55, M
No need to feel ashamed, nothing you can control about his or your feelings, but yeah, I can understand being depressed about it. Hope things get better for you.
Lackwittyname · 51-55, M
@Deadgirl Yeah, have been in that space before, sucks. The only thing I can say I have learned over the years is that simply you cannot go in the past, it is what it is, it sucks, it is going to hurt for a bit, but it is now part of the past and it is up to you how you continue forward into your future. You can let it consume you and rue over it, or you can mourn and move on.
Deadgirl · 26-30, F
@Lackwittyname the pain is so much and the guilt is like eating me alive
Lackwittyname · 51-55, M
@Deadgirl What do you feel guilty about?
Deadgirl · 26-30, F
@Lackwittyname guilty for having feelings when i knew he loved someone else alot
Lackwittyname · 51-55, M
@Deadgirl You are not a robot, feelings happen beyond your control. It is nothing to feel guilty or ashamed over. I understand being hurt, feeling depressed over it, but give yourself a break, at least you can feel and are not some sociopath.
Deadgirl · 26-30, F
@Lackwittyname tbh i want to feel nothing i want to be numb atleast its better than feeling hurt