So I sent this guy on SW money because he gave me a sad story about his family starving, but now I believe he is just a bum and kinda regret sending

Here's a hint... if they are asking for money on a site like SW, it safer to assume it's a scam.

Your heart was in the right place. That's good, now use that to ask God in prayer to give you the gift of discernment.

Once I gave a person a loan 1500 and his excuse was to get out of prison . I was haunted to get it back . I learned from that

Next time help a local

Don’t finance his vacation. Let the church help him or welfare.

If one feels moved to help another person one should do it...

If the other person is scamming you and you have given them money in the name of the LORD then they have in effect stolen money from God..

Not only have they scammed you.. They have taken that money from some truly needy person that you would have been able to give that money to later..

What a terrifying prospect they face when they stand before the LORD on the day of judgement.. All the gold in the world is not worth facing the eternal wrath of the LORD..

Well you develop a 6th sense about these things.. examine why you did it.. what did you know or think you knew then.. that you are now questioning now.. and is it valid... what did you learn.. all these are questions for yourself

This was very careless. People on the Internet never can be trusted because you never know who's actually sitting behind the other site of the desktop. 🖥

Assume everything is a scam

It's the internet. Don't assume everyone is what they appear.

well it was the good samaratian in you but you jump to the conclusion he is a lazy bum sponging off other well there again your instincts could be right he could be on his uppers and needing help it is something you will never really find out @lovetriumphsoverhate

Don't trust people on the internet

Classic schoolboy error on your part.
Sorry to piss on your fireworks, he was pissing on your leg and telling you it's raining.

Such a scam