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Anyone know anything about narcissists?

What kind of people do they genuinely admire? I'm gathering they appear to like people they can exploit for their own gain.
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KuroNeko · 41-45, F
Idk that they really admire anyone but themselves. They will look for people to prey on who are weaker. They tend to be all or nothing, if you can't or won't give them what they want then they won't have anything to do with you.
CheshireCatalyst · 41-45, M
@KuroNeko everyone here is being so mean about my people 😩
KuroNeko · 41-45, F
@CheshireCatalyst you don't count because you are self aware
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@KuroNeko well said
SW-User
They admire themselves and will latch onto others who will give them admiration and adoration. They crave constant praise and acknowledgement. They will be the ones working the crowd. They will more than likely be the popular type. The more friends the more they can be admired.
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@SW-User And that’s not going to happen here. lol
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@SW-User 😉
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@SW-User 😉
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Starcrossed · 41-45, F
They will seek the company of people who can benefit them in some way.
PhilDeep · 51-55, M
As far as I know they're likely to have become that way due to some pretty nasty treatment when they were children, that they've never managed to cope with in productive ways. When relating to others, the other gets caught up in their damage too. I think therapy can help but they have to first acknowledge their own problem.
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They will exploit you as long as you allow it. They will until you shake loose from their grasp.
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@SageWanderer They’ve got to have someone to feed off of. No contact works best. Silence is the best weapon.
SageWanderer · 70-79, M
@SW-User There is a little more to it than just ignoring him. But between myself and a few others she’ll be fine.
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@SageWanderer I understand that too.
Carver · 31-35, F
You’re absolutely right. The people they admire are the people they can manipulate and control and get whatever they want out of.
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Anyone that can temporarily boost their ego. Then they throw you away if you know their game and fight to the next person who believes the shiest.
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@SW-User Yeah, once you figure their game, see past the mask, you become the worse person to them and cant do any right. Your status with them goes from 100 to zero.
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@SW-User so right
PaleandPolluted · 36-40, F
@SW-User yes, thats true. Im classed as crap now apart from being a vague sex object.
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There’s loads of great information available on you tube, internet etc. I learnt so much which really helped me.
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They like people who they believe mirror them. They dislike and have no respect for people who can serve a purpose for them.
SageWanderer · 70-79, M
They don't admire anyone. They just work their way into a persons mind until they gain trust. Then they suck the life and soul out of that person.
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@SageWanderer well said
CheshireCatalyst · 41-45, M
#notallnarcissists
PaleandPolluted · 36-40, F
@CheshireCatalyst their behaviour does differ

 
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