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Desperate for friends. They all just want to sell their MLM Products.

Guys.. I’m so desperate for girlfriends. I’m a mom.. wife.. with a wonderful family but sometimes I just want girlfriends to walk with or talk with or drink wine with.. I spend a lot of time supporting women on social media.. liking posts commenting how beautiful people are, positive vibes all the way. I often reach out to try and connect and build friendships... I recently came to this realization that I put in a lot of effort to support others.. and I don’t see reciprocation.. they don’t like my posts.. I don’t get invited to Digital happy hours or even some get togethers (it’s a weird time I know) but what bothers me the most is, I might send a message to someone and weeks will go by no response.. to then get a response that’s like “oh my gosh I’m sorry I’m just writing you back, Aw that’s neat! Blah blah what seems like genuine response”... I get excited right thinking “aw yay they wrote me back”... next message from that person is “by the way I’ve started selling x,y,z... are you interested in joining my party?”... I have 4 occasions that this has happened in the last WEEK... it makes me so upset.. such a bait and switch,.. what the hell girls..why are people like this..
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Mamapolo2016 · F Best Comment
It's possible that since you (my impression) are ambitious (that's not a bad thing), independent woman, maybe you are drawn to women who give off the same vibes.

It may be your friend-seeking-pool needs adjustment.
Brassm0nk3y · 36-40, F
@Mamapolo2016 I never thought of it this way! Thank you for this :)