A lot of women seem to not like me/don’t want to be friends

I could go into details.. but a lot of people.. especially other women don’t like me.. I feel like I bend over backwords to support people.. and I’ll admit I have flair.. I’m energetic.. and upbeat.. and to top it off I’ve always been in the cuter side.. peppy bubbly.. but I’ve got some serious down to earthness too.. and humor I love to joke and laugh...I love to volunteer.. and help others.. you’ll find me at the homeless shelter giving out food on weekends.. outdoors, fishing, ... a well rounded mix I like to think ..often overly supportive of others.. i want to know more about them and their story.. I make a special effort to include and support women who don’t see support themselves.. but yet I always find that those women like they don’t return the favor...they don’t invite me back, include me i convos back... ignore me.. and it’s sometimes very blatant.. I know we can judge others because we often don’t know what’s really going on with them.. but I find myself in this position where I feel like it’s everyone.. nobody ever reaches out, or supports me.. or likes my stuff.. the other peice if this is I’m also very successful in my career and a lot of people know that.. I got very lucky, and I’m a hard worker.. I sometimes think this plays into that.. people being jealous.. or insecure.. I don’t know what to make if it, or if there is a frame of mind that can help me feel better about this dynamic.. at the end of the day I’m longing for connection and friends and like.. I only have 1-2 close friends that really aren’t even there for me If I need someone to talk to.. I’m their shoulder.. how do I get more friends? Or what can I tell myself to realize maybe that’s not something I need. I look at my mom who had all these friends dozens.. but for some reason that isn’t me.. and I don’t know why. I get along really well in group settings but for some reason can’t peg any genuine friends down..I see all these women in groups who like to hang out etc and despite them having my number etc, I never get invited.. what is it about me that no one wants to include me? anyone relate ? Advice ?