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Why is breastfeeding such a big deal?

Some woman (like me) can’t pump. Some babies refuse to be covered, eating in a bathroom is gross. you barely see anything like why do you care
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Soramarie · 26-30, F
@MalteseFalconPunch he jumped but he’s all good lol
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Some people don't understand that their eyes and heads can move so they blame others for being in their only line of sight.
WellFrog · 56-60, M
Because people, especially in America, are stupid.

A woman's body has been remanded to becoming a shameful thing and her breasts are classified in the common parlance as sex objects. The natural beauty of nourishing a child, no matter where, has been subverted into the vulgar and it is a shame.

Time to pull our collective heads out of the sand, America! Or in some cases, out of your asses!
ragnalikessnow · 22-25, F
I don't mind it at all. I actually like it. Looks peaceful and sweet.
romell · 51-55, M
@ragnalikessnow would b differ when you do so
hippyjoe1955 · 61-69, M
I don't care a bit and in fact encourage any nursing mom to not cover or hide. Breasts are for feeding babies.
Soramarie · 26-30, F
i never cover in church
hippyjoe1955 · 61-69, M
@cherokeepatti A bit of a funny story but after the birth of our first child Dear Wife and I were invited out to dine at the fanciest restaurant in town by my parents. Of course we had to take the baby for them to show off their new grandson. Between the time we ordered and the food arrived young son decided he was hungry and so Dear Wife carefully draped herself and let the baby suckle. The owner of the restaurant came by and yanked the cover off Dear Wife and baby saying "let's see the little one. Dear Wife had exposed both breasts as she nursed and was caught completely unaware that she would suddenly be exposed that way in front of her inlaws.
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cherokeepatti · 61-69, F
Breast milk has immune properties for the baby that they haven’t developed yet. And some babies cannot tolerate any type of baby formula and usually end up on goat’s milk, that is expensive. I knew a woman who bought a goat and milked it rather than trying breastfeeding because she had some kind of shame about using her breasts to feed her baby. She’d get up and milk the goat twice a day & have to care for it in addition to taking care of her baby and other child.
windinhishair · 61-69, M
Babies should be fed when they are hungry. Period. If people can't handle it, that is their problem, not yours.
Because it isn't enough that a woman gives birth to feel 100% like a woman - she also has to be a feeding source - then she is considered complete. Men, just want a pizza and the remote control.
Soramarie · 26-30, F
i feed my kids when they are hungry 🤷🏻‍♀️
@Soramarie I eat when I am hungry too.....
Soramarie · 26-30, F
exactly buy your old enough to understand that. Babies are not they cry to be fed and you feed them
SW-User
It isn't a big deal. If someone makes a big deal about it they are dumb.
vetguy1991 · 51-55, M
I always give them privacy
Mrsbetweenfatandfit · 26-30, F
It’s a luxury complaint. When your life is so simple you have the ability to be upset over tiny insignificant things like people feeding their hungry baby in view of them.
Soramarie · 26-30, F
this
@Mrsbetweenfatandfit When the worst part of your day is seeing a boob you have it pretty good 😂
Mrsbetweenfatandfit · 26-30, F
@GreenGoddess for real
Blackbeauty · 36-40, F
I can never understand why people find it wrong, we dont go flashing our boobs we just want to feed our baby
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Soramarie · 26-30, F
but a string bikini is fine
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@Soramarie I can see your point
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summersong · F
Sooo many people don’t know how to react when breasts are in a non-sexual context so they assume it’s because of the breastfeeding, not their own hang ups.
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It's not an issue in itself and most people just don't care. I've seen it many times and nobody cared.

What is occasionally a problem is when a mother chooses the least convenient place possible, like sitting on the floor in the middle of the aisle of a store and then complaining when she gets asked to move a matter of a few metres to a dedicated feeding area. This has happened here and makes no fucking sense.
Soramarie · 26-30, F
[@I usually find a bench
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I don't understand the people that are bothered by this.
Personally- I get scared when I see an unauthorized boob in public.
Soramarie · 26-30, F
Walmart is weird LOL. I have a service dog and watching all the people bringing their damn pets into the store floors me. Oh yeah it’s a service dog that inviting everybody and trying to attack them LOL
@Soramarie I try to stay out of that place - anyway the nearest one is about 18 miles away.
Soramarie · 26-30, F
same here thanks to mountain living
DownTheStreet · 51-55, M
No one ever tells you how hard a newborn can be
romell · 51-55, M
Blackbeauty · 36-40, F
Have you had issues when breastfeeding
Blackbeauty · 36-40, F
@Soramarie what has happened to you
Soramarie · 26-30, F
Judge mental glances comments about how inappropriate it is to feed my baby
Blackbeauty · 36-40, F
@Soramarie I had people moan when I did it so I made it more obvious to piss them off
Lostpoet · M
I don't have any problem. 👀* Stares at you creepily*
Soramarie · 26-30, F
if your sexualizing feeding a child your a degenerate

 
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