So, why do all these young men think that it's all about THEM getting off and has nothing to do with the woman's pleasure?

Because that's what porn teaches them.
It also teaches young girls that if they aren't instantly willing to go down on a guy then something is wrong with them.

I personally think it's too much porn too young, they think good sex is what they see in porn and are completely clueless as to how to please a woman sexually as a result.

That’s not a new concept, just for the record... not fair to blame young men

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I don't think its all young men. But the way to a man's pleasure is pleasing his partner.

Cam sites that allow this , dateing sites , sites that allow this where are u referring to

They should realize that they will have a better time getting off if she is having fun, too.

Now, I have never had sex but I have sex-chatted. I know I get way more excited if I know she is having fun, too (now, she could be lying, and she could be a man, but as long as I can imagine it is a woman and she is enjoying herself, that is enough). I do not get as excited watching porn. And of course it is all scripted. For that reason I seek out amateur stuff. If the woman is really enjoying it is a real turn on.

Was that TMI?

Because it takes a wiser woman to teach them 😊

I won’t answer for them because I don’t the answer for anyone (men or women) that doesn’t enjoy getting the other off.

I am 100% turned on when my sexual partner is turned on. It makes everything keep going and adds intensity

They don't learn nor understand how to treat a woman with good respect, in bed or not. If I want a woman, I'll please her ONLY if she agrees with me. It's her decision. Not only I'll please her, I'll have pleasure with her beautiful feet. 😉❤💪😎

Most guys these days learn about sex from either watching porn or listening to older guys brag about it. Either way what they're learning mostly isn't good for women.

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Hopefully because no one will go near them and their “date” is their hand...😒

Personally, I'd love to hear about you getting off.

The phrase "young, dumb, and full of cum" comes to mind...