My ex sister in law kicked her husband out. She felt he would think about things and come crawling back with a better life plan. He fell in love about 3 weeks out. They both drank a lot but she worked everyday. And my wife's brother eventually remarried. My sister in law and I both lived in Louisville,my before moving to Dallas and marrying a brother and sister we were pretty close. But I offended her one time apologized once. She didn't accept it and haven't talked to her since. So the point is not her so much but some people tend to gravitate to a certain type. He found someone else that supported him probably thinking she could change him. She was an even heavier drinker but held it well. He had a severe head injury in high school and couldn't hold his booze at all. So it's hard to tell. If he finds someone else could you handle that easy enough? Maybe therapy is an option?(I'm not much on psychologists at all) just a thought. Either way it won't be easy I guess. It's hard to be with someone for an extended period and not feel a loss. I'm probably no help at all. But I know the feeling and for my wife retained a close relationship with an ex fiancee. I didn't know the depth of it for 37 years. I'm still with her but although she claims it was plutonic there are too many lies, although most aren't spoken she just let me believe she was with girlfriends or just running an errand sometimes till 3 or 4a.m.
Man read I the classic blond or what lol. Although wr live together I never regained an intimacy with her and didn't care to she wasn't a good wife that way by her own admission. I was always wanting. Key word- was.I don't try hard to find someone but in my little mind feel I have every and any right to want that feeling only a woman can give me. Sounds selfish. I shouldn't have put that much into the act perhaps but it is what it turned out.
