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What can I say to a friend who wants plastic surgery? (Breast implants)

She is so beautiful and perfectly fine. But she is so insecure and I really don't want her to be hurt. The risks involved and cost is just tremendous. Please tell me how I can help her
ThePerfectUsername · 70-79, M Best Comment
Tell her straight out how beautiful you think she is, and if that involves talking about her body in a way that you normally wouldn't just be as direct as you can and try not to be embarrassed. Talk about her insecurities as well. Try to find out why she's insecure (something must have made her be that way) and see if there's any way you can bolster her confidence in a natural manner without resorting to such artificial and expensive tactic. See if you can find a good book or website that talks about body positivity and show her it. And above all be gentle with her. Her body isn't the real problem. The real problem is that she doesn't think it's good enough... and that's a mental health self-esteem issue not a physical one. Some professional counselling might also help, but she'd be the one that would have to want to do it, not you. 🤗
basicgirl12 · 26-30, F
@ThePerfectUsername thank you SO much! You are very kind to have written such a well thought out answer

XDHyperGirlXD1 · 31-35, F
Birth control pills have female hormones in them the same hormones that help with breast growth so she could just use them
Montanaman · M
@XDHyperGirlXD1 Exactly!☝️
Mona86 · C
Tell her too get pregnant her boobs will grow naturally
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purplepen · 51-55, F
Tell her about the risks of cancer and chronic pain. Also having to deal with hateful, spiteful, envious women if she ends up looking too much better than them.
xixgun · M
You can only tell her about the risks.
Most women are happy with the work afterwards, some get them removed later.
tutku · 26-30, F
Let her do what she wants, her body not yours hun
basicgirl12 · 26-30, F
@tutku I can't imagine how people lack empathy to this degree. She is fucking her body up because of an insecurity. I cannot force her to do anything but as a friend isn't it my duty to help her when she's about to make a terrible decision?
ozgirl512 · 26-30, F
Seriously, I don't think you can, just be there to help if required..
Montanaman · M
Most men, like au natural.☝️
masterofyou · 70-79, M
No way....

 
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