Being a good woman to a man is hard... You have to cook, tend to the kids, make sure everything...

JBird · F

Most women who does that often don't get respect. Which is why I look for guys who could help me in chores rather an lazy ass. We have only one life, enjoy when you can. I am thinking of taking my mother for a world tour when I get enough money

SW-User

Partner is called for a reason

SW-User

I can never imagine throwing my life away to be an unpaid maid ie. housewife like my mother, even she regrets it now

Eddiesolds · 61-69, M

You dont have to spend all that.Theres two of you.you can have as many lazy days that you want.Just me reading this made me tired

BoobooSnafu

Ugh... Take it from one who gave everything... Take moments and time for yourself - be strong, remember who you are,amd you have a right to have leisure.

Otherwise, you forget who you are, and the moment you're not needed... You're thrown away.

Know your worth, and NEVER give it up.

Mother hood requires a vigilance and constant attention to such a degree as no other - dont EVER feel you do nothing, because otherwise, that's how you will be perceived.

Quoththeraven

You serve your man. Does your man serve you? If he doesn’t you will burn out and become resentful

indyjoe · 56-60, M

Unfortunately what you described is an outdated old fashioned "ideal" for a good/happy relationship and marriage. There are still a lot of people who hold onto this concept. It should be an equal partnership, give and take on both sides...because they WANT to out of love and respect, not because of some expected dictate of "roles".

BlueVeins · 22-25

This is why I'm never having kids.

SW-User

Women like you are a dying rarity. Remember for every second that you are wanted by so many :)

SageWanderer · 70-79, M

I watched my mother do that and decided that marriage was a partnership. So I helped when I could and did a lot for my first wife. The narcissist took over and made my life hell. But your not the glue or duct tape. Your needs have to be met too!

DarlingSelah ·

Alot of men want a slave & call it being a "good woman. Its a scam & you need to make sure youre being properly cared for in your relationship. Its sad that you feel guilty for wanting a day to relax...?!

SnoopDawg · 26-30, M

Live your life, if those aren't your kids, please live your life accordingly, you're young.

Don't feel guilty for maintaining the castle, you've done your part and that's all that matters.

Azlotto · M

Being a good man is sharing all the chores.

SW-User

That's why I'm a lesbian

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Drewman · 46-50, M

Whatare you talking about? Doesn't sound like a parenting partnership to me.

SW-User

You just sound like an unpaid servant

SW-User

This is not being a good woman. I call it being a maid.

DownTheStreet · 51-55, M

And what does he do?

SW-User

That's a tall order....😩

bijouxbroussard · F

If you find the right man, you have a partnership where both of you contribute to running the household, raising the children and earning a living to fund it all. No one person is stuck with a gender-specific set of chores unless that’s how they [i][b]both[/b][/i] want things.

eMortal · M

.. don't forget the conjugal duty in the bedroom.