@Triggerer well polyamory is the exact opposite of “them and only them.” It’s about being in a relationship but also letting them explore other people or sharing them or whatever.
It’s particularly beneficial with long-distance relationships where physical contact is infrequent to impossible.

@ShaythePanTransMan I understand. And it's okay. But I'm not that way and don't want my partner to be :/

@Triggerer Yeah. It’s okay that you’re not that.

@5thApprentice ikr??? :D

@Triggerer As long as we all understood it, probably. Unless I was getting more deeply involved than felt safe, if there's a triangle.

@Mamapolo2016 I'm not sure I'd be able to stand the thought of him feeling the same for me as for any other... i should be his special one :/

@Triggerer I agree completely. If I'm in love to the point of making a commitment and he's not - I would wish him well and move on.

Life's too short.

@Triggerer It sounds complicated, maybe more than it needs to be. I think just be honest with them about your feelings and move on if you think you need to.

@SW-User It's maybe not so complicated. But I am not ready to be with a man who told me he loves another girl , is attracted to her , but they are friends. I can't understand and get over it

@Triggerer I definitely agree, i wouldn't want to be with someone like that either.

@baben30 i agree. Thats why I've cut it before I got myself deeply in emotions

@JBird I agree with you

@pride49 same

@YourMomsSecretCrush reasonable

@Vivaci I couldn't agree more , better to feel sad atm for some time , than being happy and suffering at the same time :D

@Triggerer yeah, moving on always gives us better options.

@wildbill83 not really what I meant xD it's about emotional side :D

@Triggerer hey, two "connections" are better than one right? 🤔😉