If a man/woman who you like and have some kind of connection with - loves , likes and is attracted to another women/men while at the same time is

attracted to you and wants something with you , would that be okay to you and would you continue that kind of relationship or would you cut it right away?

This page is a permanent link to the reply below and its nested replies. See all post replies »

SW-User

It would depend whether they were just attracted or acted on that attraction. If it was the latter, then that would either be cheating, an open relationship if we'd agreed on that, or a polyamorous relationship if all three of us got involved together.

Triggerer · 26-30, F

@SW-User I understand. But hm... For example me: If I'm attracted to one guy , my attention is for him only, if in meantime I get attracted to another guy , my attraction for first will disappear, so I'm again fully attracted to second while no attraction for first guy. Yet him , his attraction would stay for previous girl and next girl , with or without acting on it - I can't be 100% sure.

SW-User

@Triggerer It sounds complicated, maybe more than it needs to be. I think just be honest with them about your feelings and move on if you think you need to.

Triggerer · 26-30, F

@SW-User It's maybe not so complicated. But I am not ready to be with a man who told me he loves another girl , is attracted to her , but they are friends. I can't understand and get over it

SW-User

@Triggerer I definitely agree, i wouldn't want to be with someone like that either.