If a man/woman who you like and have some kind of connection with - loves , likes and is attracted to another women/men while at the same time is

attracted to you and wants something with you , would that be okay to you and would you continue that kind of relationship or would you cut it right away?

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ShaythePanTransMan · 22-25, T

That’s fine. I’m polyamorous. I don’t care if they’re seeing other people. My girlfriend has another boyfriend, and, while I don’t have another partner, I’m hooking up with a close friend tomorrow before seeing her next week.

Triggerer · 26-30, F

@ShaythePanTransMan It's not so easy to me to not care when I caught feelings for them and only them :/

ShaythePanTransMan · 22-25, T

@Triggerer well polyamory is the exact opposite of “them and only them.” It’s about being in a relationship but also letting them explore other people or sharing them or whatever.
It’s particularly beneficial with long-distance relationships where physical contact is infrequent to impossible.

Triggerer · 26-30, F

@ShaythePanTransMan I understand. And it's okay. But I'm not that way and don't want my partner to be :/

ShaythePanTransMan · 22-25, T

@Triggerer Yeah. It’s okay that you’re not that.