While I support and love the trans community, recently i've been at odds with them.
Me, being a woman and a frequent LGBT ally, all of a sudden, i'm not a woman because of my vagina or my chromosomes but because I "Feel like" A woman which is the argument I have found in so many trans women. So what exactly does feeling like a woman mean? If it's not having the female reproductive system then what? Having large silicone boobs? Sorry love. Many born women do not have large boobs. Is it wearing tight, pornified, overly girly clothing? Sorry. Not all women wear those things and you are perpetuating an annoying as hell stereotype.. So i'll ask again. What does it mean to feel like a woman? Am I all of a sudden a man if I put on men's overalls and a male tanktop? Mere clothing shouldn't determine your gender. I have been labelled transphobic for not wanting to date a trans person and I have been told that my aversion to female genitelia is because of a bias and I need to work through that. When my boundaries are respected, i'll begin to respect and even admire trans people. I'll still call them by their pronouns though.
Ok. Rant over. Peace. ✌️
Ok. Rant over. Peace. ✌️