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Husband too depressed to look for job?

We had a baby a year ago. Her and I were constantly sick, like back to back for almost the entire year. It seems every week she had a new cold or stomach virus. I literally thought at one point I wasn’t going to be able to recover. Well my husband stayed home a lot to take care of us, and I did as well. As a result, he lost his job of 8 years as an attorney. I also left my job because of being passed over, I’ve since found work freelancing, and have scored a part time job also. He howveer, is not faring quite he same. He’s EXTREMELY depressed. He is very attached to the baby, and it seems loving being at home but he won’t put his resume together. I’ve dragged him to cafes ready to type it out and format it, but he breaks down crying when we get started. He’s certain he won’t find a job that’ll make him happy. He’s very very sad, mopey, like I said like pulling teeth to get him to just type his freaking resume and then we need to apply for jobs. I DO NOT know what to do. I’ve tried not putting pressure, I’ve tried PUTTING pressure. He won’t consider starting his own business, just a complete halt when it comes to finding a job or even trying to take the first step and put his resume together. I’m at a total loss. He’s crying a lot at night at like 2am, depressed. Our savings are dwindling, I admit them firing him from his job like 6 months ago was harsh and devastating but i didn’t expect him to take it this hard and not pick himself up by the bootstraps. We are too poor to go to counseling right now. Anyone been in this situation ? How did you figure it out ?/ motivate your significant other ?
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tenente · 100+, M
geezus this guy is in need of serious help asap. see a doctor about depression and have his hormones checked out for low-T. after his insides are fixed can start working on the outside