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indyjoe · 56-60, M
There is absolutely nothing I'd change about her concerning who she is...she's a sweet woman, a wonderful person, and is a great wife/partner. The only thing I can think of is I'd give her a stronger libido to improve our sex life together...other than that I have no real complaints.
appassionata · 36-40, M
@indyjoe maybe she needs a little encouragement? usually low self esteem makes women shell up and become anxious about sex. try having a few drinks and asking her about her kinks or fantasies. you might be surprised what she finds sexy haha.
indyjoe · 56-60, M
@appassionata That's good advice, but here's the problem with it in our case...It's not being in a shell due to low self esteem (she's a very confident woman), her libido is all but gone due to necessary medications she must take. She has talked to her doctors about it and they have already gone through a series of changes and adjustments and finally found ones that work for her And help her with her situation too. But at best it has brought her to where she is now. She wants sex once in a great while and she is able to orgasm again when we do. As for the Having a few drinks...1) she can't drink alcohol because of medication interaction, and 2) she cant drink alcohol because she had a problem with alcohol abuse when she was younger (she was borderline alcoholic). But I appreciate your reply and your advice, Thanks.🤠