What's your opinion on "genderfluidity"?

@NorthernRoses I have no problem with the style itself. In fact it's cool. But people on sites like tumblr blow it out of proportion and make it a "Valid" gender which I find weird.

@ChiChi93 what about people like yourself that say "I am a woman, I don't want to be a man" isn't that just as valid a reason as "I want to be Both" ?

@ChiChi93 Yeah, there are a few rotten eggs. I lump them in with the people who misunderstand and take things out of proportion. Those people are also often the kind of people who dislike people for being healthy, positive, etc. and are incredibly self-destructive. You just gotta not to listen to them, and to check on what things actually are all about.

I have seen some people talking about validating genderfluidity. More often than not it's nonsense written by 12-13 year olds (AKA most of Tumblr) who are still working on figuring out who they are and who want to find something unique and special about themselves (AKA almost all early teenagers, making a fool of yourself in middle school is a part of growing up, sadly). There are a few people who ask to be validated in the sense of "these stereotypes exist and few people seem to be doing anything about them, so if I stick to these stereotypes and look like this I guess I'm this now, right?". And I absolutely accept that idea, keeping it like a miniature private revolution against society's gender stereotypes.

Either way, I'll have no issues with it. I believe people need to figure shit out for themselves, and that people should respect that.

Otherwise, you might get another heartbreaking fiasco like this one; just some kid who made a thing, and someone's very cruel response that went viral. Imagine if that happened to you when you were a kid.

@DaughterOfGone Yes! It annoys me that people insist on putting pink on girl babies and blue on boy babies...so strangers can immediately know what their genitals look like...we are so warped

@SW-User I agree but I also think that it trivializes real transgender people and their experience.

@Fernie thank god it is not MY country and no you will find NO role model in CANADA unless you are a mad liberal ^^

@revenant but......I AM a mad liberal

@Fernie 😂

@RoxClymer they are free to be themselves,i am free to form an opinion about it

@SW-User having an opinion about it is perfectly ok, having an opinion that leads to harming other people is not

@RoxClymer any opinion on anything can lead to harming others

@dumpstermeow Sorry. It seems to be stuck between my legs, because no matter how much I try to visualize living like a woman, it never leaves. So much for fluidity.

I don't think you are missing anything @dumpstermeow

@RoxClymer That's especially useful when your standard of what an expert is becomes whoever agrees with you, while anyone who disagrees is deemed a bigot. Which is a pretty standard sentiment within the trans and SJW communities.

But again, quantity is not the same as quality.

@TheOneyouwerewarnedabout religious rhetoric only works on religious people, I am not religious, not even spiritual

@RoxClymer is Antony wrong?

Seems like you wanna skirt the issue because a religious person said it.. weak

@Fernie Some do. Fortunately not all. ☺️ I most definitely do not approve of some of the negative behavior going on.

@DeWayfarer enough...too many

@Fernie One bad apple can ruin the whole barrel is how I look at it.

@TheBatman yes, I see that you DO have mental issues dear...glad you can admit it

@MrsKatherineArch real? It's real to the people who live that life...it's irrelevant what we think

@Fernie And that's why I said "I am not so sure", which means that I don't have sufficient knowledge to make a blanket statement about it either way.

@Emosaur Weak English here. But like they mean they're boy one day and girl one day.