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Bobcats · 36-40, M
I was pretty young, I don't remember learning how so I always thought people just knew how to swim. The first time someone told be they couldn't swim I literally thought they had some kind of disability.
girlsmoke1975 · 46-50, F
@Bobcats I remember thinking that when I was really young.

rckt148 · 61-69, M
very young ,I come from a long line of fishermen / 3rd Generation Coast Guardsmen
they believed in making sure you could swim very young
not only swim but how to free yourself from a line or waders Aka hip boots in the event you were ever wearing them and fell ,they can drown you if you panic
so how not to panic was the key,
then I had more advanced survival and rescue techniques in service
I am thankful ,,when I was lost as sea with no life jacket
all of it saved my life, and my ability to swim allowed me to save lots of other peoples lives too who could not
girlsmoke1975 · 46-50, F
@rckt148 That's wonderful! Thanks for sharing and for your service.
rckt148 · 61-69, M
@girlsmoke1975 thank you, it was my pleasure
it was a life time of experience in a few years (4) that set the standard for the rest of my life (and since I had dropped out of school to work ,it actually saved my life ,lots of people prefer to hire Vets ,no one but family hires drop outs )
We saved lives ,but we also lost some too ,so amlot of joy ,but lots of deep sorry as well ,and kicking yourself too .
Had we only been just a little faster ,had we not taken the time to do this or that ,but as they say you win some you loose some ,but loosing at this job haunts you .
We learned to face our fears and do whatever had to be done to save lives and when possible the vessel too .
But I learned I still don't know my limits are ,we have way more in us then most know ,and so far ,I have never found a point where I just said I can't .
Some used to say I had a death wish ,but the ones we lost ,they pushed me more and more not to let it happen again ,if there was anything we could do better or faster ,we needed to do it (we were treated like gods of search and rescue ,we were very good at our jobs )many of the men who trained me we Vietnam Vets ,,they were the ones who took the risks and did the impossible ,never willing to give up I owe a lot to them ,beyond anything you could learn in boot camp and in many instances even just doing the job ,they taught me no one gets left behind ,and we are capable of so much more then we think ,Do the damn job ,I am not writing you an invitation ,I can still hear one coxswain say today ,He was awesome .
So now when I am complimented ,they knew if there was a way ,I would find it
its from that experience ,we were it ,often no one else was coming
3 of us made the difference many times between people dying or living ,and they nor we had anywhere else to go ,it was do or die or burn up or drown .
We also fought a lot of fires ,vessels trying to sink while we were on them ,fuels and other sources for fire that not only could burn you,, but stick to you ,burn on the water as well ,often we had to do what you would never believe was possible ,but we did ,and most of the time ,We saved the day .sometimes ,our best was not enough ,I have found very few really do know about all the Coast Guard does ,It really is a huge job ,for such a small service .
By 21 I had a very good job before I was discharged with a major railroad ,I used the last vacation (Leave ) to make sure I could get a good job ,and I did
But I have often regretted getting out ,but my wife was tired of all the time I was gone ,so she threatened to leave me if I stayed in ,but 3 yrs later her father passed away and her Mom wanted me to quit a railroad to be a farmer and run her small farm ,I refused ,,I was not a farmer
so my wife left me ,,it added insult to injury ,working with civilians is hard enough when you are used to the teamwork of Shipmates ,but now I loose my family too ,it was a huge blow as to who I was ,I spent many years after trying to define who I was again .
I was offered a major bonus to stay in a job I loved ,,my choice of duty stations
and I gave it up for a marriage that was about to end
I love my kids and could not imagine life without them
but if I had my life to live over I would have listened to Grandpa ,retired CWO4
I would have went in single ,and did as he did ,
He retired the highest non com rank ,,36 yrs in service
I was able to learn and do more in that 4 yrs ,then most get to do in a life time
I am the one who is still grateful for the chance to serve on one of the greatest team's of men and women on planet earth ,The United States Coast Guard
So fellow Brothers and Sisters ,Semper paratus ,always prepared,ready for any emergency.

girlsmoke1975 · 46-50, F
@rckt148 Wow! You have had quite a life! Thank you so much for sharing that with us.
krf336 · M
I don't remember, I don't remember a time when I wasn't playing in the water and I have always been able to not drown. But I don't think I ever paid attention to any type of technique until I had to do rescue swimming in the military.
girlsmoke1975 · 46-50, F
@krf336 It does come with practice. Also learning proper breathing before you dive.
krf336 · M
I am sure. that is true of scuba diving as well, but capacity is not as much of a focus.

Where do you free dive?
girlsmoke1975 · 46-50, F
@krf336My last real diving adventure was when we were on Maui. Send me a PM and we can chat more about it if you would like.
I was 5 or 6. I didn't want to leave the shallow end because I was terrified. This is probably why I remember the experience.
krf336 · M
@ScarlettBlue I used to teach rescue and survival swimming and that is the biggest one. I always started by teaching people how water works and how to float, Once people understand that they can relax and focus on enjoying the experience.
girlsmoke1975 · 46-50, F
@ScarlettBlueI see from your other comments that you got over your fear. So glad to hear that.
I did. It just took some practice and a little time.
senghenydd · M
I was quite young in school my Mom's Auntie had drowned in the Swansea Canal and all the family were tought to swim as soon as they could walk.
girlsmoke1975 · 46-50, F
@senghenydd That is so sad that happened, but your family did the right thing.
SW-User
I remember swimming as long as I can remember. But formal swimming lessons at the pool must have been in first grade. So that is about 6.
girlsmoke1975 · 46-50, F
@SW-User I also don't remember not knowing how to swim.
PerfectionOfTheHeart · 46-50, F
I haven't yet :(
PerfectionOfTheHeart · 46-50, F
@girlsmoke1975 I had lessons when I was younger, but an incident where I nearly drowned kind of made me more fearful of the water. Now that I have a personal pool I'm getting more comfortable in the water, so maybe one day those lessons will come.
girlsmoke1975 · 46-50, F
@PerfectionOfTheHeart I really hope so. Just keep working on it and I'm sure that you can overcome your fears. Would love to hear your progress.
SW-User
@PerfectionOfTheHeart I bet I could teach you... :D
Swim lessons at 3 or 4.
girlsmoke1975 · 46-50, F
@BizSuitStacy My parents felt the same way only I learned in a public pool. I don't even remember not knowing how to swim. We moved to a house with a pool when I was quite young.
@girlsmoke1975 Sounds like they couldn't keep you out of the water either.
girlsmoke1975 · 46-50, F
@BizSuitStacy Hahaha! Nope!
smileylovesgaming · 31-35, F
I was like all most 2 year old's
girlsmoke1975 · 46-50, F
@smileylovesgaming Perfect age!
smileylovesgaming · 31-35, F
@girlsmoke1975 my mom thought if u could walk you can swim
girlsmoke1975 · 46-50, F
@smileylovesgaming Your mom was right.
junegirl1970 · 51-55, F
Very young, I don't remember not knowing how to swim.
girlsmoke1975 · 46-50, F
@junegirl1970 Same here.
Degbeme · 70-79, M
5 I think I was. I had to learn real quick. My brother threw me off the dock. lol
CharlieZ · 70-79, M
Almost at same time than my first walking steps.
girlsmoke1975 · 46-50, F
@CharlieZ That's the best time to learn.
CharlieZ · 70-79, M
Fungirlmmm · 51-55, F
You know I don't remember? How odd is that?
krf336 · M
@Fungirlmmm Fairly normal I am noticing
SW-User
I think i was 3 or 4 years old
girlsmoke1975 · 46-50, F
@SW-User Awesome!
Wishingwellguy · 46-50, M
3 early learner . True water baby
girlsmoke1975 · 46-50, F
@Wishingwellguy 👍👍
FreeSpirit1 · 51-55, F
I forget how old exactly,before 10
girlsmoke1975 · 46-50, F
Adogslife · 61-69, M
I think I was three
girlsmoke1975 · 46-50, F
@Adogslife Awesome!
Ambroseguy80 · 56-60, M
I want to say 6 or 7
girlsmoke1975 · 46-50, F
@Ambroseguy80 Judging by the responses, you are about the usual.
girlsmoke1975 · 46-50, F
@Underconstruction Awesome! I was really young also. Don't even remember when I didn't know how to swim.
@girlsmoke1975 Same here
SW-User
About 6 or 7... :)
girlsmoke1975 · 46-50, F
@SW-User 👍👍
Picklebobble2 · 56-60, M
11. Had lessons at school.
girlsmoke1975 · 46-50, F
@revenant Cool!
AngelofFail · 26-30, F
EvilFairy · 18-21, F
@AngelofFail i think 5... was before i went to school
FCNantes · 22-25, M
girlsmoke1975 · 46-50, F
@FCNantes That's pretty young.
FCNantes · 22-25, M
Um huh.
girlsmoke1975 · 46-50, F
@Aidan 👍👍
girlsmoke1975 · 46-50, F
girlsmoke1975 · 46-50, F
@Niburu Cool!
girlsmoke1975 · 46-50, F
@NunIover Cool! Better late than never.
girlsmoke1975 · 46-50, F
girlsmoke1975 · 46-50, F
@SW-User 👍👍
girlsmoke1975 · 46-50, F
@TexChik 👍👍
Leftyss · 56-60, M
girlsmoke1975 · 46-50, F
@fluteacorn Cool.
girlsmoke1975 · 46-50, F
@SW-User 👍👍
girlsmoke1975 · 46-50, F
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mrmoose · 70-79, M
SW-User
I lowkey still don't know 😂😂
Cantsayno · 56-60, M
Roughly 10

 
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