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what is your Third Place?

The First Place being your home
The Second Place being your work place or school

What familiar place do you go to meet familiar and new people in a comfortable context?

Do you have a Third Place?
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dancingtongue · 80-89, M
I have a couple of favorite diners. No more school or work, so I need a 2 as well as a 3
PDXNative1986 · 36-40, MVIP
For me the rune and board in hillsboro and the unitarian universalist.
SleepingWithGhosts · 46-50, M
ArishMell · 70-79, M
More fancy labels for the sake of fancy labels!

If you did not invent those, who did, and why?

I left school over half a century ago, I am retired so "work place" does not apply to me; but I have my own home; I have friends and relatives, I belong to clubs catering for my hobbies, I go to occasional concerts, public lectures, exhibitions or museums....

How have I and all those around me managed to come through life so far without knowing we needed all these Nth-Place categories?
Tracos · 56-60, M
@ArishMell I didn't invent them, they are actually established sociological labels that are used to describe and debate the loneliness epidemic among , especially, 20 and 30 year old.

People used to go to a pub to make and meet friends, or a gym, or reading groups.

That is not so common anymore for various reasons and multiple causes.

The very fact that at your age you have multiple examples is a testament to social dynamics of your generation vs that of many of younger generations.
PDXNative1986 · 36-40, MVIP
@Tracos For real. Like, the city planners and everything I listen to on YouTube are all into that stuff and talk about them. I can't believe he doesn't realize his reply was rude. Talk about being blind to your own hypocrisy.
ArishMell · 70-79, M
@Tracos I realise you didn't invent them.

I was questioning wny so many people want to categorise everything and anything so much: "Millenials", Gen-Z, now places.

It's quite recent - the last few decades perhaps. Maybe it's not ever so different from the time people were labelled by "working class", etc - which forgets that the so-called "middle class" and indeed many "upper class" do work for a living too.

Thankyou for explaining them though.

Actually I heard something related to that a few days on the radio, although without using sociological terms. Gordon Brown, former British Prime Minister, remarked that one reason for growing isolation was due to people not finding, or perhaps not looking for, social clubs, hobby societies, voluntary work, sports clubs, etc. It's not always their fault of course although some might simply not be interested in anything anyway. he referred to the widespread loss of amenities like youth clubs, public swimming-pools and the like by funding cuts; and also shrinkage of voluntary groups like the Scouts and Women's Institute. .
Blondily · F
Meeting family usually at a restaurant, park, etc
FreddieUK · 70-79, M
My church family.
Lostpoet · M
It used to be the library and mountains but other people ruined it for me.
1490wayb · 61-69, M
im reitred and single so...sadly the library staring at sw feed trying to chat with a lady or two
AdmiralPrune · 46-50, M
The chocolate aisle 🍫🤗
Right now, I really do not have that person whom I call my home.

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Musicman · 61-69, M
I am retired so my list is a little different.

1. Home

2. Local Restaurants

3. Our motorhome. We travel to visit friends and meet new people in campgrounds.
Teirdalin · 31-35
I don't meet new people and I also work from home. lol
Crazywaterspring · 61-69, M
A Unitarian Church. No red hats or Bible thumpers there.
GeistInTheMachine · 31-35, M
Nope. I live in my head and walk on a knife's edge. Nothing comfortable about it, and I am very cautious about who I let in now.
PDXNative1986 · 36-40, MVIP
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