I am about to book my ticket for another country

But there is a man here that I've been dating for few months now. I don't know what to do. Leaving for abroad has been a calling ...or is it an excuse, a dreamland in my head to avoid setting proper boundaries to the environment and the spaces i live in?
Do i want to leave.... for what reason really?? It's strange. Apart from him, there's nothing holding me back.

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OneDayMore · 36-40, M

I think if you believe in destiny then it doesn’t matter if you go. If you’re meant to be together than you’ll meet again.

If you don’t believe in destiny then there’s no reason to stay with this person because you’ll meet someone else.

If you go then it’s probably a good idea to end it outright before you go, because you’ll be busy and people will be jealous and what not.

The biggest mistake I ever made was not leaving my ex girlfriend when I had the leave don’t leave question.

Leave. Go. Live your life. Get his number and say goodbye.