I Lost My Virginity To Rape

I came on here to talk about my experiences growing up. I thought that this was as good a place as any and that maybe now was the time for me to talk. I’ve realised now though that it isn’t as easy as I thought it would be. I was abused growing up by a man who was close to my family and who I trusted as part of it. He’s not the same man who did those things to me now, we are close and I still see him all the time. It’s just that thinking about the past and the things that he did is still very difficult for me, and I don’t really know how to move past that. I hope that just by putting myself out there a little and trying to talk about it, things will get easier and I will be able to move past it so that it won’t affect me anymore. Fingers crossed 🙂

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SW-User

Do you feel you have to be close to this person?
Have you let yourself feel rage for what he took away?
It wasn't okay.
And I am so sorry you endured that.
The reason I ask is that I know too well this story.
Until I accepted the truth that I had a damn right to be angry... I couldn't get past it.
Not saying to live in anger or stay bitter.
Rage is one stage of the process not suppose to stay there.
It is an acknowledgement of your loss and what was taken away.

holsywols · 22-25, F

@SW-User Hi. Thanks for your reply. Yes, there have been times in the past where I’ve felt angry with him but I’ve forgiven him and we’ve moved past it.

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@holsywols he must pay for his crime and must be an example for all the animals like him. If you were my daughter i would have skinned him, pour acid on each cut and let him live and die slow death.