He is my dad's best friend and he is good friends with my mom too. My brothers and me always call him "uncle". If they found out it would hurt everybody so much and cause so much grief that I just keep it to myself
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Your mental health is more important than your familys relationship with him. If their potential pain is all thats holding you back then I think theres no excuse not to tell them. I'm not going to judge you for whatever you decide but I think that if you have the will to tell them what happened and you think they'll believe you then there's no reason you shouldn't.