why does rape bother people more than murder?

Because the victim survives, it’s kinda hard to be traumatised when you’re dead

I agree with canmyusernamebemyusername, being raped destroys you. Until you decide that you can’t let them win. You keep going and you create a wonderful life to replace those memories. Then your happiness destroys their motive- to control you sexually and mentally for years to come.

Because it destroys the person which is worse than death.