Why didn't I just say no???? To a sexual predator ..
(This isn’t about me its about someone i know who was trying to get with a neighbor girl who.. isnt exactly into him.. but he asked me to help him do something for her birthday.. ) and now it’s bothering me..
I just realized my brother is a sexual predator (my 2nd brother..) it’s kinda a no brainer because once when i was a teen he came to my room and demanded to have sex with me.. i thought “wtf” i told him to get out or i’d tell dad.. so he left and never bothered me again..
But I heard a few years ago that he got kicked out of a resort for exposing himself to underaged girls at the swimming area..
But recently he decided that he likes a certain neighbor girl and asked me to help do something for her birthday.. so i said ok.. but the more he talked about it to people while shopping for chocolates and cake (i think he even freaked the bakers out) the more i realized he was trying to hook up with her (which is something i didn't agree with just because i know she doesn't like him that way.. tho i guess he thinks otherwise..
Her problem tho is she is a friend of my mom’s and my sister and my brother (she adores my brother’s son..) but my brother keeps trying to get with her.. she tries to tell them they are just friends but i guess he thinks if he buys her stuff for her birthday that she will just fall in his arms and 🙄
When i realized his intentions then why didn't i just tell him off? Am i scared of him? (he throws violent fits sometimes)
Idk if i should tell my mom and let her tell him off or if i shouldn't bother her with this..
😐 the girl’s birthday was the other day and it still bothers me how he was ordering us around and trying to get her alone with him.. like he set up the cake in a secluded room and didn't want anyone else there, just her..
I told her sorry latter and i didn't agree with him about that and I know something is way off with him..
Idk if i should go talk to him and tell him what he is doing/trying to do is wrong 😐 idk if he even cares.. my problem is that i know he has a vindictive temper and once he even attacked me with a.. anyway 😐
I just upset about this ordeal and am worried that something worse is going to happen if nothing is done about his behavior.. idk if something can be done to fix him or if people like that are just bad. And can’t think rationally and respectfully
I just regret my part in it in setting up the cake area and even having anything to do with his plans once i realized he wasnt just trying to give her a nice birthday.. he was trying to use it too get her with him..
I dont think anything happened but it’s bothering me more and more.. his private area for the cake and his “just me and her first and then you guys can come after.”.
I don't know why we even went along with that because it’s bs..
She’s not his gf.. she’s not his gf and as far as i know doesn't want to be his gf .. if she was his gf or had wanted to be with him then i would have been happy for them to have a private moment together.. but that wasn't the case
And i’m sitting here wondering why i went along with his idiot plan that i never agreed to and that she had to be subject to being alone with him and his dreams of being in love with her (which she doesn't agree with)
But why did she tell him that she would date him if he wasn't married? Was she trying to put him off or.. idk why people have to confuse and complicate matters and keep me awake at night..
Why do we stand there dumbstruck by things that are wrong instead of contradicting it? Why let it play out? Why not say no to utter wrong before it proceeds further..???
Are we just cowards or in shock that .. !!! 😐
I just posting this because some girl out there maybe have been taken advantage of by a predator and just because you didn't say “no” per say.. doesn't mean you weren't taken advantage of against your will .. you’re a victim of a predator and .. they should have a name for that..
Rapists aren't always strangers in some dark alleyway.. sometimes they are someone you considered a friend or even family.. that’s the worst thing..
I just realized my brother is a sexual predator (my 2nd brother..) it’s kinda a no brainer because once when i was a teen he came to my room and demanded to have sex with me.. i thought “wtf” i told him to get out or i’d tell dad.. so he left and never bothered me again..
But I heard a few years ago that he got kicked out of a resort for exposing himself to underaged girls at the swimming area..
But recently he decided that he likes a certain neighbor girl and asked me to help do something for her birthday.. so i said ok.. but the more he talked about it to people while shopping for chocolates and cake (i think he even freaked the bakers out) the more i realized he was trying to hook up with her (which is something i didn't agree with just because i know she doesn't like him that way.. tho i guess he thinks otherwise..
Her problem tho is she is a friend of my mom’s and my sister and my brother (she adores my brother’s son..) but my brother keeps trying to get with her.. she tries to tell them they are just friends but i guess he thinks if he buys her stuff for her birthday that she will just fall in his arms and 🙄
When i realized his intentions then why didn't i just tell him off? Am i scared of him? (he throws violent fits sometimes)
Idk if i should tell my mom and let her tell him off or if i shouldn't bother her with this..
😐 the girl’s birthday was the other day and it still bothers me how he was ordering us around and trying to get her alone with him.. like he set up the cake in a secluded room and didn't want anyone else there, just her..
I told her sorry latter and i didn't agree with him about that and I know something is way off with him..
Idk if i should go talk to him and tell him what he is doing/trying to do is wrong 😐 idk if he even cares.. my problem is that i know he has a vindictive temper and once he even attacked me with a.. anyway 😐
I just upset about this ordeal and am worried that something worse is going to happen if nothing is done about his behavior.. idk if something can be done to fix him or if people like that are just bad. And can’t think rationally and respectfully
I just regret my part in it in setting up the cake area and even having anything to do with his plans once i realized he wasnt just trying to give her a nice birthday.. he was trying to use it too get her with him..
I dont think anything happened but it’s bothering me more and more.. his private area for the cake and his “just me and her first and then you guys can come after.”.
I don't know why we even went along with that because it’s bs..
She’s not his gf.. she’s not his gf and as far as i know doesn't want to be his gf .. if she was his gf or had wanted to be with him then i would have been happy for them to have a private moment together.. but that wasn't the case
And i’m sitting here wondering why i went along with his idiot plan that i never agreed to and that she had to be subject to being alone with him and his dreams of being in love with her (which she doesn't agree with)
But why did she tell him that she would date him if he wasn't married? Was she trying to put him off or.. idk why people have to confuse and complicate matters and keep me awake at night..
Why do we stand there dumbstruck by things that are wrong instead of contradicting it? Why let it play out? Why not say no to utter wrong before it proceeds further..???
Are we just cowards or in shock that .. !!! 😐
I just posting this because some girl out there maybe have been taken advantage of by a predator and just because you didn't say “no” per say.. doesn't mean you weren't taken advantage of against your will .. you’re a victim of a predator and .. they should have a name for that..
Rapists aren't always strangers in some dark alleyway.. sometimes they are someone you considered a friend or even family.. that’s the worst thing..
