Is it normal

To still have trauma from my ex. It was an intense relationship that lasted a year. She was great at the start as they call "love bombing", after a few months all the mental games, abuse, cheating started.

She left me, and i really thought i loved her but it was manipulation

Its been 2 years now and i still feel and think about ber

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LadyGrace ·

Very normal. You have no closure and this event truly traumatized you. I am so sorry this happened to you. I pray God will heal your heart so you can move on. However if you stepped back into that while she is still emotionally unwell, you would only be making things worse. She needs help and counseling. And for you to stay in that type of environment, would only drag you down, as it is toxic to your health. Sometimes we're missing what we thought we had, and that hurts just as bad. I would recommend counseling and much prayer. I just read where you said you were healing. I am so happy to hear that. You deserve to be happy and you deserve someone who will want to make you happy.