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To still have trauma from my ex. It was an intense relationship that lasted a year. She was great at the start as they call "love bombing", after a few months all the mental games, abuse, cheating started.

She left me, and i really thought i loved her but it was manipulation

Its been 2 years now and i still feel and think about ber
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Diotrephes · 70-79, M
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To still have trauma from my ex. It was an intense relationship that lasted a year. She was great at the start as they call "love bombing", after a few months all the mental games, abuse, cheating started.

She left me, and i really thought i loved her but it was manipulation

Its been 2 years now and i still feel and think about ber

Consider it as a lesson in life and think of her as a great teacher in how to relate to people in an intimate relationship. It's time for you to move on and form a new relationship with a woman who truly values you and who will respect and honor you as you do her. But, you could need another lesson if you don't get your head on straight. Just be thankful that you didn't marry her and have to go through a messy divorce.

People usually go through a dozen or two dozen before they find the right one.