I’m worried that I’m maybe boring to be around

I’m not really that good at being friends or getting too close to people, I used to kinda hide this by being kinda mean, but for obvious reasons I’ve stopped doing that. I’m concerned that my girlf maybe thinks I’m a bit boring 😬. I am really nervous and worry about getting close, I get drunk really easily and do stupid stuff which I think she’s a bit embarrassed about. Sorry I’m venting, I don’t even know what I’m asking here, I think I just needed to write this down.

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LadyGrace ·

The thing to do is work on becoming your authentic self instead of pleasing other people or worrying about what others think. Try to get to the bottom of this type thinking, because it's self-destructive. If someone loves you, they will love and accept you for who you are... not what they think you should be.

Strongtea · 22-25, M

Thankyou, your advice is always really good, I’m really really thankful that you take the time. 😊@LadyGrace