I’m worried that I’m maybe boring to be around

I’m not really that good at being friends or getting too close to people, I used to kinda hide this by being kinda mean, but for obvious reasons I’ve stopped doing that. I’m concerned that my girlf maybe thinks I’m a bit boring 😬. I am really nervous and worry about getting close, I get drunk really easily and do stupid stuff which I think she’s a bit embarrassed about. Sorry I’m venting, I don’t even know what I’m asking here, I think I just needed to write this down.

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Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F

I know I'm boring.
For myself I don't care that I'm boring.
I think it's good that you're working on yourself and not trying to be so angry.
Sometimes ,you may need a little extra help by someone who's trained to help?

Strongtea · 22-25, M

Hey thanks. I think I do need a little help from someone, but I feel a bit nervous and ashamed. I need to work up the courage. @Justmeraeagain

Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F

@Strongtea
I think it's hard for anyone to go get the help they need and they say it's harder for men to do so?
I don't think there's any shame in trying to better yourself or get help.

Strongtea · 22-25, M

Thankyou, this helps a lot. 😊@Justmeraeagain