I’m worried that I’m maybe boring to be around

I’m not really that good at being friends or getting too close to people, I used to kinda hide this by being kinda mean, but for obvious reasons I’ve stopped doing that. I’m concerned that my girlf maybe thinks I’m a bit boring 😬. I am really nervous and worry about getting close, I get drunk really easily and do stupid stuff which I think she’s a bit embarrassed about. Sorry I’m venting, I don’t even know what I’m asking here, I think I just needed to write this down.

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Royrogers · 61-69, M

I agree with Boeing. Sometimes we drink when we are bored. Perhaps try to reduce the drinking by consciously thinking i will just have one and then a soft drink and give yourself a reason such it’s work tomorrow or i want to go and do something without dealing with a headache

Strongtea · 22-25, M

Thanks for this advice, I do seem to overthink things and feel bored/boring/nervous and then drink alcohol to calm down. I’ll try your advice. 😊@Royrogers

Royrogers · 61-69, M

@Strongtea I quite like savouring different teas from different countries. Why not suggest to your young lady that you both try a different tea and that becomes a common thing between you and can be done in front of a warm fire

Strongtea · 22-25, M

Ok yes, that’s a great idea. Thankyou. @Royrogers