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I Fear For The Future

I grew up being taught by non minorities just how blessed I was to live in a world without racism. It didn't take me long, courtesy of my african American, baby boomer, well educated parents, to know how wrong that lesson was. Fast forward a couple decades and I find myself living in a world where overt racism is fast becoming acceptable again but subtle, covert racism is the norm. Its sad when you can't assume anyone's position. I had a conversation with a biracial toddler who at such a young age is already shaming herself into believing her brown hair is blonde because that is better and that either way, her hair is way better than black. Its not sad that she said it, its sad that of all the non blonde people in her life, someone taught her that. Don't even know what to say to that, just find it sad that even toddlers are the kind of people I don't want around my daughter. She will get picked on, she'll face adversity but I'll be damned if anyone is going to make her ashamed of what she has been blessed with, a full head of hair regardless of what color.
I myself am of European descent. But my features are very Greek. Dark hair, olive complection. I always considered myself to be white if anything, but a lot of people see me as a minority. I've had a lot of racism directed at me. Much of it directed at me because they thought I was a different race too which is really sad. Police are by far the worst. And those who think this is just a USA problem... I'm not from there. It's a world problem
@twiggy You're the one who isn't chill buddy lol
twiggy · 26-30, T
@Qwerty14 ...? I'm not the one typing paragraphs about how it's not just a U.S. problem. High time to purchase a mirror for yourself, I think.
@twiggy I was actually just voicing my personal experience. You decided to highlight the America part of it. So chill out okay. This site is about sharing personal experiences
AprilBaby042 · 36-40, F
It does remind me of the Nazis too. Hitler wasn't blonde hair and blue eyes but he perpetuated the idea of that being superior. This child isn't around too many people with blonde hair but has been taught that her brown hair is inferior. She's a baby and it seems like a childish comment but it starts subtly. Who's to say what extremes she goes to to change other things "wrong" with her. Its scary.
Amylynne · 26-30, F
I think it has gotten worse, in the last 25 years from some i have talked to.
gains lost due to the divisive propaganda of the Right.

I just listened to an author, who has focused on multi generational trauma about lynching.

then,, he said 400,000 people we tortured to death.

4, hundred thousand...

it makes me want to peel my skin off,
i cant stop crying from what he said. stories as awaful as those from nazi germany.. im sick at my stomach.
I dont want to hate my country.
I am a child of prviledge, and dont even know how to talk about this to my Browner Freinds.

i havent the words
I find that many non-minorities don’t see the existence of racism because it’s rarely directed at them, except by individuals in the form of name calling. They don’t understand being treated differently by police, in stores, in the doctor’s office, various little things on a day to day basis. I don’t mean it to sound condescending, but I don’t get angry any more when someone doesn’t see it, I just kind of sigh and move on. And I appreciate those friends who are in tune enough to “get” it that much more.

 
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