Sometimes, reading someone's responses is a good enough indicator of how they would be.

I tell myself, 'Don't be so quick to judge,' but then I go through their other posts and they prove me right.

We all judge.

Its a remnant of survival insticts, although our environment is very different now.

Its human nature, its how we select who we associate with, it emotional defence.

Its also a little bit of our ego too. We like people who agree with us.
It makes us feel 'right', validated.
Ergo - we prolly dont like people who dont agree with us🤷‍♀

We all slowly paint a picture of ourselves with every word we put down.

AngelUnforgiven · 51-55, F

@OogieBoogie i think that some people are just sensitive. And they want to be coddled. If everyone is being fake and throwing praise at everyone else rather than just being honest. When they hear brutal honesty they sometimes get offended by it because they are used to all the butt kissing and being handled with white gloves. And i dont understand that when you literally asked people's opinions. You cannot ask for opinions and only accept the ones that you want to hear.

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OogieBoogie · F

@AngelUnforgiven this is very true.

The fake pandering we see so much of makes me kinda feel disgusted.
Some things should not be enabled.

Besides - if we have nothing possitive to say, we can just scroll by.

And if people do say adverse stuff, we can argue, debate or ignore if we dont agree.

There are options out there.

And theres value in debate ....or even in ignoring: its called resilience.

bijouxbroussard · F

Posters often express surprise when they’re blocked by people who’ve "never even spoken with" them.
But many times you can get a sense of who someone is, simply by the way they interact with others—especially when they’re upset.