I just want to know why some people here hate me without

reason? I don’t really care but it baffles me. Lol

And yes, I’m not perfect but that still isn’t a great excuse for hate without reason. I’m sad to say that even the lady that died kept blocking me for no reason.

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WonderGirl

I've been blocked in mid-conversation and have no idea why.
When someone blocks me I block them back. I figure if they change their mind and unblock me I don't want to see them and visa-versa.

LoveBeingWatched · 51-55, M

@WonderGirl Try my attitude. It's called "I don't give a shit how you feel about me". As long as you're comfortable with yourself, who cares?

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fun4us2b · M

They likely hate themselves first - then just project onto any nearby target

Try not to take their issue into your heart - let it bounce off...

SW-User

I know, bitter to one’s own self turns into hating others. @fun4us2b

fun4us2b · M

@SW-User Yup, a losing proposition...for them...

Pretzel · 61-69, M

jealousy

SW-User

Nothing to be jealous about 🥺@Pretzel

Pretzel · 61-69, M

@SW-User didn't say it made sense :)

SW-User

@Pretzel true, I know many people that would be jealous of me if I died. Lol

RubySoo · 56-60, F

Most people here dont like themselves very much and project that onto others. I think most of us have felt hated here at times, and as you point out, usually by people who dont know us. They pick out one comment...and hold it against us forever!

I like you. 🤗

SW-User

Thanks, I like you as well. You’re not a lady that goes and blocks just because you don’t agree with something I wrote. Many women here that I’ve known for less than a month just block without hesitation. @RubySoo

SW-User

Yeah and one didn't do anything bad to those people. Anyway better to not have anything to do with those people

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SW-User

@SW-User I’m sorry that happened to you. It happens to us all. They just seem to be irritated by me. I guess we don’t fit into their weird standards. Ironically, I see the same people that dislike me being friendly with other people that blocked me. It’s best we only focus on the people that have proven they are OK. What I mean is you never know when your online friend will ghost, block or harass you. I keep myself prepared for that after what I’ve been through.

SW-User

@SW-User yeah only the ones that you've known for a while and you've seen tu be trustworthy are different. Others can be just fickle

SW-User

@SW-User true, I mean you have to know them for at least a year and if you see red flags then stay away. Many are sneaky and two faced. To be honest if they are cruel with you then it’s best they block. If they don’t block you then they might cause you more problems. Sometimes being blocked by these people is a blessing in disguise.