Inquiring minds wanna know….

Is it really [i]‘better to have loved and lost’[/i]???

Or would it have been easier to have never gone there in the first place….

I’m sure sometimes a person can just move forward, holding on to the memories you shared….
But then other times the pain of loss seriously outweighs the good times you had…?

What do you think?

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Busybee333 · 31-35, F

You learn. You always learn something. Some lessons are painful... though on the long run, that wisdom will eventually serve in your best interest. Every coin has two sides. Maybe you had to meet that specific person at that specific time of your life because something in them spoke to your heart and helped you survive. Maybe you had to let them go because you now need something different. Or maybe they have changed and need something different. Maybe you are just not really compatible in terms of temperament but knowing someone well just takes time. In that case it is better to have loved and lost than to have loved and stuck with someone for some kind of unfulfilling life. Be true to your heart. Be with someone who is true to theirs (and to you). And often, alone is better than in an unhappy relationship :)
Always know that there is a chance to meet someone extraordinary every day 💗