People who say baddie make me cringe

People who call themselves and their friends "baddies" make me cringe so much
The word makes me cringe
Its short for bad girl
Why are we desiring and aspiring to be "baddies" like tight clothes full makeup and a slim curvy figure drenched in designer is the ultimate cheat code in life
Why is this goals?
Why is bird brain culture so prevelant in society and clapped for the loudest when its surface level juvenile and stupid.

How to function as a healthy adult, self regulate and manage yourself and emotions, to have ACTUAL healthy relationships with others and significant partners, seeking therapy, having high standards for yourself, building your self esteem brick by brick, being a dilligent daughter/mother to your family, to your community.
Thats not celebrated
That's not the "goals"