People who say baddie make me cringe

People who call themselves and their friends "baddies" make me cringe so much
The word makes me cringe
Its short for bad girl
Why are we desiring and aspiring to be "baddies" like tight clothes full makeup and a slim curvy figure drenched in designer is the ultimate cheat code in life
Why is this goals?
Why is bird brain culture so prevelant in society and clapped for the loudest when its surface level juvenile and stupid.

How to function as a healthy adult, self regulate and manage yourself and emotions, to have ACTUAL healthy relationships with others and significant partners, seeking therapy, having high standards for yourself, building your self esteem brick by brick, being a dilligent daughter/mother to your family, to your community.
Thats not celebrated
That's not the "goals"

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It's a playful way to describe someone who's confident and has a strong personality. I see my mum as a baddie lol. Maybe ask yourself why it is something meant to uplift women/girls in a playful way makes you cringe. I think you'll find the problem is there,and not with the baddies

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Alyosha · 36-40, M

When reason was abandoned as a normative standard, all that was left were inversions of reason. Exchanging one virtue or value for another. It leads to evil when ethics is involved, but that's where idealizing the bad boy or girl comes from.

deathfairy ·

Interesting username choice to be dissing just one form of what you wear. 🙂

Hikikomoribabe99 · 26-30, F

@deathfairy did i say girls that dress like that are bad no i didnt diss anyone its more sbout how society expects you to conform to one look as a young woman than the girls with that aesthetic themselves gheez

deathfairy ·

? I was talking about title aesthetics. You wearing your username. That’s a form of wearing something. The word babe is pretty close to baddie, diva, baby… it’s a title. So you shitting on baddies is kind of redundant when you have “babe” in your username.. Do you see the irony? I do. @Hikikomoribabe99

Hikikomoribabe99 · 26-30, F

@deathfairy i actually dont babe is a term of endearment especially in the uk up essex ways baddie is short for bad girl and both are childish to say past 19 .
I genuinely dont get what you were even trying to say but whatever 🤷 each to their own

CountScrofula · 41-45, M

People were calling themselves "bad" in a way that meant good in the 1980s.

Slang is just gonna be slang.

nazgul · 26-30, F

It's just not that serious.

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