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It's GOOD to Be Judgemental.


I don't believe that anyone can ever truly say they never judge anyone or anything, because even without knowing it we make assessments about others and practice discernment when making important decisions. To be truly non-judgemental would be to be less than human, for it would require a level of mindlessness bordering on the comatose, and [b]yes[/b], that is my assessment, my judgement!
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Agreed. I think everyone [b]does[/b] make day to day judgments on people and situations. It helps keep us safe. I also believe that what people are sensitive about is being [b]condemned[/b] and looked down upon. It’s possible to think, privately, that a friend is making a mistake, and resolve to be there if they need you. That’s judgement, but it’s not condemning the person. And it’s certainly not ending the friendship.