It's GOOD to Be Judgemental.

I don't believe that anyone can ever truly say they never judge anyone or anything, because even without knowing it we make assessments about others and practice discernment when making important decisions. To be truly non-judgemental would be to be less than human, for it would require a level of mindlessness bordering on the comatose, and [b]yes[/b], that is my assessment, my judgement!

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Colonelmustardseed · 36-40

Yes, but I think there’s a big difference between assessing and discerning vs judging (the way it’s usually meant).

Alyosha · 31-35, M

I like reading your views.

FormerAtheist · 26-30

@Alyosha Thanks! ♥️

in10RjFox · M

Nothing wrong in being judgemental as that's how we react with others during an interface. But how we deal with others without acting upon our judgement but remain open to see if things change, is what makes our personality.

sunriselover · M

No, only God is our judge. Our job is to look for paths of reconciliation.

FormerAtheist · 26-30

@sunriselover Reconciliation with evil? I don't think so.
"What agreement has Christ with Belial? Or what portion has a believer with an unbeliever?" - 2 Corinthians 6:15

bijouxbroussard · F

Agreed. I think everyone [b]does[/b] make day to day judgments on people and situations. It helps keep us safe. I also believe that what people are sensitive about is being [b]condemned[/b] and looked down upon. It’s possible to think, privately, that a friend is making a mistake, and resolve to be there if they need you. That’s judgement, but it’s not condemning the person. And it’s certainly not ending the friendship.

MartinTheFirst · 22-25, M

I think words are not able to communicate what people mean when they understand the idea to judge without judgment

Monalisaa1986 · 36-40, F

I don’t judge as often

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