Unpopular opinion: Being single is actually not bad. I’ve been looking for love but I was told...

mariannezap · 31-35, F

It's late, but I agree. So much pressure to be in a relationship of any kind these days, and all that pressure does is stress people out. Work on you, make yourself the best you can, then find a relationship. Or not, it's your life.

IamBack · 31-35, M

It’s not unpopular, it’s not “bad” to be single nor is it “good” to be in a relationship.

There’s no life manual to tell you what you “have” to do or where you “need” to be.

Our lives, our choices 🤷🏻‍♂️

Mirkwood · 36-40, M

If i had a time machine, then for sure i would tell myself, just focus more on education and what you want to do in life, than spending so much time obsessed with relationships, being liked and all.
But its not always easy either to dial down that.

And.. if you didnt focus education and stuff, it will hit you when older how much that can matter in dating world, and being "ready" for something bigger.

Theyitis · 36-40, M

I agree, being single for a little while is probably pretty cool; however, being single for the entire first 35 years of your life like me is depressing.

Ryderbike

You’re awful young to be worried about that kind of thing.

Live your life .,

Yesterday is gone..tomorrow is uncertain..so what’s left ? Only today and only this moment.,, live it

SW-User

That's an excellent outlook. From wholeness a love will be born that doesn't mean you'll be needing to be whole from another.

LemonWorld · F

Feels like a chore 😭 I don't know how people can hop into a relationship right after another....

luckranger71 · 51-55, M

You are far ahead of the game with this outlook at a young age. 👍

Amylynne · 26-30, F

not looking for a relationship but like playmates

wonkywinky · 51-55, M

but is single the same as lonely?

OogieBoogie · F

At this point in your life its all about learning and exploring.
You are still cementing who you are .

And theres no better way than to live your life by your own choices .

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