What is the thought women think of when they say they need closure?

You never hear a guy say that

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MetalGreymon · 36-40, M

It means they want say everything that they felt needed to be said and to understand why a relationship ended the way it did.

And yes, men want this too.

MikefromEP · 51-55, M

@MetalGreymon: True... but letting go seems to be different with the sex's

MetalGreymon · 36-40, M

@MikefromEP:

Not in my experience.

MikefromEP · 51-55, M

@MetalGreymon: When you choose to let go... You will understand

MetalGreymon · 36-40, M

@MikefromEP:

I have chosen to let go of relationships before.
And the ones where we were able to get closure were a lot easier than the ones that just ended.

Closure is important, regardless of gender

MikefromEP · 51-55, M

@MetalGreymon: I just find it interesting how the 2 minds work on dealing with moments

MetalGreymon · 36-40, M

@MikefromEP:

I don't think the minds are really processing differently. I think there is a societal indoctrination that allows women to be open with what they feel and entourages men to be stoic