what about a person makes you want them in your bed?

@wave001211: i love chemistry

@whipsmartWhitey: totally agree. i can't imagine myself having sex with someone i at least don't like. how about you?

I dont have to like them, if there's chemistry. lol. Strong chemistry is intoxicating.

@whipsmartWhitey: good point :) i guess it's just based on experience where the ladies i had chemistry with ended up being ladies that i really want to spend time with. so that it's not only about sex but something more. and by "something more" doesn't necessarily means that she ends up being my girlfriend but good friends.

Nice.

@whipsmartWhitey: Lol, i don't know what to make of that comment. is that too... naive of me? i mean i like one-night stands as much as the next guy but afterwards, it feels kinda... hollow? maybe it's just me.

sorry, i was rushing out and probably hasty in my response. My simple comment was meant to mean, I appreciate your comment about how chemistry usually means more then just sex. Friendship often comes out of it. I didn't think of rhis before, but I agree.

@whipsmartWhitey: :) i guess my philosophy is i really respect ladies a lot. in that i don't want to treat them as just a piece of meat (you know, after sex you just don't call back anymore or ignore them completely). ladies deserve so much more than that and should be treated with respect and dignity like how i want others to treat me.

Great philosophy, but you can pretend to be disrespectful in bed with some wonen. Some of us like it. lol

@whipsmartWhitey: oh now that's a different story altogether. role-playing :) something i'm interested in trying out but haven't had the chance lol.