I hate it when people become soo suffocating and dominating in friendships, and don't understand and even scold at you, when you need space. Ughhh! :(

Recently I have been taking distance from a friend... because she wasnt respecting my feelings and manipulating and dominating me... even giving me feelings of guilt, while I wasnt at fault.. and finally after bearing it soo long, and always putting it beside me, I was finally able to say... STOP! I got a very rude reply after that.. which I ignored.. Her loss.. not mine .. I cant handle it anymore. It has been enough! Its a burden to be soo sensitive and not assertive enough, though. *Sighs*

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Ih1King · 36-40, M

I am sorry about your bad experience with a friend. I know it is not very easy to set boundaries with other people especially when they are aggressive and obnoxious. A lot of people are living for personal gain and make it sound acceptable by coating it with all kinds of ambitions that promote further development. It is very tough to let go of things that are dear but as you said yourself respect and loyalty should be mutual.