Do you believe that the way to physical contact is through emotional stimulation?

Yes..I believe so I can never give myself not unless I'm fully satisfied emotionally..

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You're response points to the idea that women are verbally and emotionally stimulated, while men are visually-stimulated. It's just the way we are hardwired.

alohamom · F

I totally see your point. Fortunately, for me, I've met men who are equally verbally and emotionally stimulated. Mental foreplay can be hot.

Sepia · 36-40, F

And one man can never understand that we can only give ourselves only if we felt truly adored. .genuinely

ravenwind43 · 51-55, F

@alohamom: yes men are more visually stimulated but I also know of men who want the visual and mental also.

mathsman · 70-79, M

@ravenwind43: I love the mental stimulation, the talking through fantasies and desires