Do you ever feel like you are too much?

Example: you talk too much, you're intense because you get passionately worked up easily, you can't hold your tongue, you're too open with your emotions, etc.

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JaggedLittlePill · 46-50, F

Yes. All the time

I also think I am not enough...like no in between...i am either too much or not enough

Pimpedcheerios88 · 31-35, F

Me too. That's exactly how I feel. I always get to this point on occasion where I feel like I've let myself down and that I could be better. I think the only way to tone it down is by constantly watching myself.

Pimpedcheerios88 · 31-35, F

And then I find it really hard to remember to slow down when I'm in the moment ya know?

JaggedLittlePill · 46-50, F

@Pimpedcheerios88: well..i think that I have realized that I am definitely not everyones cup of tea...and that those who can handle me and do not think twice about these "flaws" of mine are the people I need in my life. They are out there and I would rather be able to be me without fear.
This does not have to be a bad thing...and some days are better than others for me in terms of feeling satisfied with who I am.

Pimpedcheerios88 · 31-35, F

@JaggedLittlePill: yeah I also have personal experience with people sticking around just to be manipulative...so trust issues too oh yay and I guess the people in my life wouldn't be around if they didn't love me but I still have doubts.

JaggedLittlePill · 46-50, F

@Pimpedcheerios88: I completely get it. I too have trust issues..

Pimpedcheerios88 · 31-35, F

@JaggedLittlePill: I think I am still trying to figure out exactly what I want and work on watching myself more when I'm in the moment.