I remind myself that each day when I'm not any more restricted than I am now is a gift and I make sure I remind myself to be thankful for that gift. What I can do And where I can go always matters more than what and where I can't. And if things ever get worse again I'll make sure I keep reminding myself of that then, too. You can do the same too because it really is all relative.
one of my previous GFs (who also had macromastia, by the way) wore a 38KK bra when we started dating. it only got bigger while we dated. but i never thought she nor her breasts were too big.
it might sound strange to say this but it's the truth: she was built as the universe had intended. and while it was obvious that her breasts were super large, she was one of the most fun people around that you'd ever meet. she just accepted and went from there.
None too big and no limit. Because, most don't get to pick their size, other than the implant people. Also, it could be a 'medical' or hereditary that causes the size. Will never judge, just love....besides, huge boobs are always nice.....hugs
For my own attraction? No. If I was with a girl and she wanted bigger I'd support her as long as she was happy and healthy. Just happens to be a bonus for me, lol.
I don't think there is a size limit as too large, as long as you're willing to get behind the negative aspects. For instance in your situation, any potential partner would have to understand and be willing to support and help you as your body continues to grow, including all the exercise and back issues and doctors visits etc etc. As long as your partner has your back, then enjoying your front shouldn't be wrong.
curious @megank2785: you haven't responded to many of the answers. did you get what you were looking for with the folks that took the time to answer? And why were you asking?
Are you worried that your condition, somehow, makes you unlovable or undesirable?
@megank2785: Well, you're certainly brave to be honest about it like that, so thank you for being a bit vulnerable in your answer. Out of curiosity: what have you encountered thus far in the "real world"?
Are you finding that folks find you to be generally lovable and desirable or no? And, perhaps, the bigger question: are the bad experiences based on many, many people or just a few asshats that, somehow, you can't forget?
@megank2785 It's honest. If the truth were different, it might not be sweet, but I swore years ago not to lie to anyone. It has served me well since then. :)
Personally, I've got a bit of a sympathetic size fetish; I've spoken to some astoundingly endowed women, primarily as a mutual means of emotional support, but have not met someone who would be considered too big as far as attraction goes.
Not to me! I like all sizes, obviously the more natural size the better. But I sort of like the exaggerated proportions...if the woman is alright with it!
My current gf is 44J. I have never dated less than a DD cup bc that is what I am physically attracted to. Most of my Gf have been E-H cups. If there is a limit I have yet to find it.
I guess in the aesthetic sense it depends on arrangement and tone and the fit with the rest of the body. It is possible to find breasts that are too large and (in my tastes) that look ... sloppy. But remember that is in my tastes and such a thing doesn't take into consideration your condition. As I understand it someone with macromastia may feel their breasts' growth has "gotten out of hand". So I know I provide my input at the risk of sounding judgy, but then there's this caveat; with regards to the situation where someone feels they suffer from their breasts the fact that they impact your health or happiness makes them ... undesirable at that size -- I'd rather they be a size that helps you not hurts you.
I think shape, and texture, are pretty important too. Personal experience can make a difference as well when a very young man I had intimate time with a very well-endowed woman, it sort of took. So perhaps I am not the best judge.
Well, I would have never thought I would be this large, nor be able to manage this size, but I guess you just adapt and get use to it. God knows I am far larger than an H cup, although I do remember when I was in school and a 34H.
I see what your saying about adapting to your size. Some people however feel that they cannot. At least there are some options, if rather extreme ones.
As to your size, i think i would be very attentive. Lol
This reminds me of the postings about height being an attraction. One cannot change some things (albeit breasts can be changed surgically) so why should they matter so much? I guess it is all about what one likes or dislikes. I am happy with my body parts and that is all that matters.
So I've experienced being with a woman with size 36 k and to me they felt too large but that's only for me. I mean if someone's comfortable with their size whatever it is then it's all good.
of course there is! Thick GIRLS are sexy! for me and most guys that I know.. but too big is a huge turn off. But than again most guys will tell you some BS lies.. Because most guys are programmed to NOT disagree with females, in a hope that they wont lost their chance of soaking their Dicks.
Regarding attraction, it really depends on the person (the 'liker' of the bust). For me, there is absolutely no limit. And I say that from my heart AND experience.
From a health point of view, I think the person WITH the bust should be whatever remains healthy for them. Never compromise your health for anyone.
