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It happened to me again. I was in a gathering with three girls. As a person with social anxiety, I strived to talk as much as I could. It was all fine at the beginning because we had the equal amount to talk. Until one of them left, the other two...

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Sharon03 · 70-79, T

It doesn't have anything to do with you. You're still as valuable as you always were. It has everything to do with them and their insecurities and fears. Don't let their actions determine who you are.

LookingForIt987 · 51-55, M

Sharon is wise. Listen to her. :)

Sharon03 · 70-79, T

@LookingForIt987: I do know what I'm talking about. I've been there. Still am sometimes, but the valuing of self based on others is gone.

LookingForIt987 · 51-55, M

@Sharon03: Agreed. I've been there too. Learning value of self comes from inside rather than outside is a difficult, and often painful, lesson.

LadyGrace ·

No. It's the airheads that don't realize value when they see it. They're just just full of hot air, themselves. You're perfect just as you are!

SStarfish ·

😳 Wow that's cold

BlueMetalChick · 26-30, F

...people do this?

Madelenie · 26-30, F

Yes..

BlueMetalChick · 26-30, F

@Marshmallow: Man, people weren't this petty around me.

bearinthebigbluehouse · 26-30, M

@BlueMetalChick: That's because bluebear is scawy.. ┬┴┬┴┤•ᴥ•ʔ/ Maybe us 3 can be all buddy buddy irl!! I'm sure that'd be fun. ┏ʕ •ᴥ•ʔ┛

Aidan · 26-30

Happened to me a lot in high school and freshman year of college. I barely have friends now.

SW-User

Oh I'm sorry to hear/
You feel better now?

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