Why is it so easy to see what a person needs to do and you sometimes struggles so much to see what you need to do?

Yes, I see. But, in the cases where the similarity doesn't exist. You tend to see clearly what's that person problem. Could it be because you see it from the outside? With a colder head?

@twistermind: in my understanding there's subconcious stuff going on within each us that we're are not aware of. We can become aware of it with help. It takes willingness and effort to look at ourselves. Something that we see in others matches something within ourselves. Not exactly the same thing but similar.