a very hard question...of danger & inevitability...

you are to pick which among the two would you RISK taking if you absolutely have no choice...

[A]
you are blessed/cursed to have the capabilities of saving anyone at the cost of your love ones death being inevitable no matter how much you energy you will risk just to PREVENT their deaths [natural causes and old age are an exception]

[B]
you are the love one of a person who has a specific super power or say you "hero" knight in shining armor or whatever. he/she has gained a good reputation world wide, but he/she currently checks up on you to the point of being obsessed and stalks you without being judged by others due to his/her good reputation that it is not "wrong" at all and that people instead backfire your complaints saying that he/she is your "guardian angel"