You’re not too much, okay? ❤ You don’t have to apologize for feeling deeply or caring so much. I can understand You, not because I’m a mental health expert, but because I’m in the same boat as You. I know how deeply it hurts when Your care is mistaken for control, when all You ever wanted was to help, protect, or make things a little easier for someone.
But, dear friend, maybe we can’t always change how others perceive our intentions. What we can change, gently and patiently, is how we respond to it. We need to learn to be a little more forgiving of ourselves first, and then of others.
One small adjustment I’m trying to make is to keep being the caring person I am without letting it hurt me so much when others feel overwhelmed by my care. Honestly, I don’t know how to care less, even when I try. My mind automatically starts anticipating what others might need or how I could help them, even when they haven’t asked.
One thing I’m learning, though, is to give people space and not let my care unintentionally intrude on theirs.
