I just have some thoughts on the world today

I just have some thoughts in the world today. I often think about how I can change things in this world even if its only in my community or even just my street. The main thing I want to change is the singleness problem. It feels like im the only married person in my age group(i was born in1994). It seems like people say they want to be married but they do not put in any effort in finding someone to marry and to me thats just wild, and what’s even crazier is the statements theres no good men or women out there. I would ask them well where are you looking most would say dating apps or bars. Thoes are the worst places to find someone, i would recommend, clubs, libraries , dog parks work/school and concerts or other public events. Both men and women are equally at fault why they are single and unhappy for men my advice is ask more people out but dont sleep with any of them and for women i would say know what you want but dont be picky put yourself out there and also dont sleep with anyone until marriage. I have only been asked out once in my life, and I asked my husband out if I didn't we would have never gotten together hes really shy. Men complain that women are picky and some women are its about getting a woman to want a man badly enough if you fall head over heels in love then they are yours. Usually its about going for the person you are attracted to and spending alot of close personal time together. People dont spend alot of time with each other.