postpartum feelings & shit

i wouldn’t trade my baby for the worldddddd but i absolutely hate myself now, i hate my body, i’ve changed so much and can’t lose the baby weight i’m struggling so bad with my mental health & the way i look & i just wanna go back to my body before i had her. she’s the best thing that’s ever happened to me, no doubt abt it butttt i hate the way i look. everything about me. i hate it

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GoFish · 41-45, F

aww 🙁 congrats on the baby tho

glossyheart · 22-25, F

@GoFish thank u she’s everything to me

GoFish · 41-45, F

@glossyheart yeah ☺

TexChik · F

How old is your baby? and...Congrats on your new baby! As far as what you feel right now...a massive hormone shift from being a Preggy Peggy to being a milk Cow...Its not fun or fabulous, its part of the ride. Get off your own back for a few months. Once your milk dries up, then you can work on you...until then enjoy your little angel!

glossyheart · 22-25, F

@TexChik thank you so much 🥹😭 she’s five months old

TexChik · F

@glossyheart Aww! How precious. Its a little more difficult to undo what a pregnancy does to you, but its very doable. I felt the same way as you do right now.

Birdbox1986 · 31-35, F

Do you have the dad helping you out?

glossyheart · 22-25, F

@Birdbox1986 barely

Picklebobble2 · 61-69, M

It'll come.
Right now your body is probably in recovery mode.

Feed it what it needs.

Feed yourself what you need (mind.body.soul.)

glossyheart · 22-25, F

@Picklebobble2 thanks🫶🏼

Ann99 · 41-45, F

Becoming a mother is not easy Your body and life go through so many changes and it’s okay to struggle with those feelings Please be gentle with yourself you’re doing your best ❤

glossyheart · 22-25, F

@Ann99 thank you love😭🥹

Ann99 · 41-45, F

@glossyheart 🫂

Pretzel · 70-79, M

Have you spoken to your medical provider about this? Might be post partum depression and there help for that

It's real

Sorry you are going through this

glossyheart · 22-25, F

@Pretzel i just started taking zoloft

Pretzel · 70-79, M

@glossyheart it'll take a while to get in your system but keep up with the provider. If that one doesn't work you can try others

Hope you are feeling better soon

robbie2499 · 61-69, F

Just remember, the way you feel right now is temporary. As it's been said "this too shall pass" and you'll wish your baby was that young again.

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Magicianzini · M

You'll lose the weight if you truly want to.

The rest - well, you have changed. You must accept that.

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